I am thinking about my life and try to recall all of wrong decisions I have made. It is very hard to say which one was wrong and which one was good. In a way all of them were good because thanks to them I am who I am and I am now writing this essay. As far as I am concerned the wrong decisions do not exist. You can't make a wrong decision. It is always your choice. Sometimes after, you may wonder if you did everything what could be done, or if it was good but you cannot change it and the only thing you can do is to accept it. I think that all those decisions make a person, a character. You meet your friend because it is your decision, you study and work and that is your decision, you can even kill somebody and that is always your decision. In my opinion you should always reckon with the consequences. Even if we make a mistake it is good because it is another experience for us and the next time we won't make the same mistake. Sometimes the decision which seem to be wrong are turning to be good in the future. I think that we always make the best decisions for us at the moment we are concidering it. The future is a mystery and life is going on so I think that there is not much time to think if one decision was good or bad.
Monday, May 4, 2009
The old people
Being old is not easy especially in Poland. When you are young and healthy you don't think about that far future. But that are the usual ups and downs. First we are beautiful and then we are old. But can you be happy when you are eighty years old and you can barely walk? Unfortunately, in my opinion there are more disadventages than advantages of being old.
First of all, your appearance changes very much. You get smaller and you have got wrinkles all over the body. Your hair become gray. I think that it is very hard to get to used to such changes. What is even more important than appearance is the phisical fitness. Very often old people have got troubles with walking. They need to use walkingstick or even the wheelchair.
The next thing is that because of the lack of the phisycal fitness old people are not able to exist by their own. Very often they are dependent on their children. Moreover, children decide to send their parents to the old people's home which is rather condemning them to death than help. They feel unnecessary but they prefer to stay alone at house than go to the old people's home.
Furthermore, are old people poor very often. They are reciving their pensions but it is just enough for very modest living. They cannot afford going on vacation or sanatorium. They cannot even meet their friends because often they are just dead already.
As far as I am concerned it is not easy to be old person. I wish I had good children who would take care of me or maybe it is better to dye earlier. I think that the age is the only thing on this world which cannot be bought.
First of all, your appearance changes very much. You get smaller and you have got wrinkles all over the body. Your hair become gray. I think that it is very hard to get to used to such changes. What is even more important than appearance is the phisical fitness. Very often old people have got troubles with walking. They need to use walkingstick or even the wheelchair.
The next thing is that because of the lack of the phisycal fitness old people are not able to exist by their own. Very often they are dependent on their children. Moreover, children decide to send their parents to the old people's home which is rather condemning them to death than help. They feel unnecessary but they prefer to stay alone at house than go to the old people's home.
Furthermore, are old people poor very often. They are reciving their pensions but it is just enough for very modest living. They cannot afford going on vacation or sanatorium. They cannot even meet their friends because often they are just dead already.
As far as I am concerned it is not easy to be old person. I wish I had good children who would take care of me or maybe it is better to dye earlier. I think that the age is the only thing on this world which cannot be bought.
STEREOTYPES that Polish people like vodka
To start with, the definition of stereotypes sais that it is some kind of belief about different behaviours of people or nations. There are a lot of stereotypes mainly of nations. For example we can say that Gypsies are thieves, German people like drinking beer and sausages, French people are very fashionable, etc. Of course not all of the stereotypes are true and many of them are not real and may be very offensive. Those believes are the result of gathering the experiences by a large number of people from one country about people from the other countries. Most of the stereotypes are based on one's experiences which could be very good or very bad. So, we should be very careful before we start to judge other nations or people because very often the stereotypes are absolutely different. Lets look at the polish nation stereotype. We are said to be hospitable and kind. When we talk about polish person it is clear that she or he is a catholik who goes to church every Sunday. In free time polish person drinks a lot of vodka. We are very brave as the nation and we are great patriots but we quarrel a lot and we cannot build our country properly. We are good workers especially abroad but we are also thieves and we mainly steal cars forom Germany. This is how our polish stereotype looks like. Unfortuantelly I cannot agree with everything what is said about polish people. It is sad that the stereotypes are deep - rooted in the general view and that they are very hard to be changed. On the other hand it is good to know the customs of other countries but we should not listen to the all stereotypes and try to create as positive view of our country as possible.
Addictions
In contemporary times addictions are present in almost every spheres of people's lives. There are many different kinds of addictions, for instance: alcoholism, workoholism or even shopaholism. Now the question arises whether everything can be a drug and is it actually possible that everyone is addicted.
Many people claim that one of the aspects of addictions is connected with people's emotional site. Drugs and alcohol are a common cure for family problems, lack of money, professional failures, loneliness or boredom. They strongly believe that these things are able to solve all their problems and make them happy.
The second very important dimension of the case is television, which may become equally addictive as drugs. Nowadays people more and more often are becoming "coach potatoes" and simply can not resist watching programmes. Especially young people are prone to exaggerate with the television which makes a lot of harm to their brains. And the last, yet not the least important is the fact that addictions like workoholism or shopaholism are becoming even more and more common. In shopaholism are especially involved women, who feel the overwhelming need so as to buy something. Very often all the purchases are completely useless. Whereas workoholism is mostly the domain of men, for whom their job and competition are the only passions.
However, despite all these addictions, there are still people who appreciate more a good book rather than a television programme and more relaxing for them is a walk in the park than a trip to the shop.
To sum up, in every one of us, there is a little part despising the consumerism of this world. The most important thing is to discover it, as any drug or addiction will not make the world easier.
Many people claim that one of the aspects of addictions is connected with people's emotional site. Drugs and alcohol are a common cure for family problems, lack of money, professional failures, loneliness or boredom. They strongly believe that these things are able to solve all their problems and make them happy.
The second very important dimension of the case is television, which may become equally addictive as drugs. Nowadays people more and more often are becoming "coach potatoes" and simply can not resist watching programmes. Especially young people are prone to exaggerate with the television which makes a lot of harm to their brains. And the last, yet not the least important is the fact that addictions like workoholism or shopaholism are becoming even more and more common. In shopaholism are especially involved women, who feel the overwhelming need so as to buy something. Very often all the purchases are completely useless. Whereas workoholism is mostly the domain of men, for whom their job and competition are the only passions.
However, despite all these addictions, there are still people who appreciate more a good book rather than a television programme and more relaxing for them is a walk in the park than a trip to the shop.
To sum up, in every one of us, there is a little part despising the consumerism of this world. The most important thing is to discover it, as any drug or addiction will not make the world easier.
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